MARRIAGE (Complexity-14)

                                              

I have in a few of my previous episodes discussed about Siblings/ Piblings/ and Niblings.

How they are so important, why they are so important. What happens if and when they sour, how much of pain and agony one goes through.

But then, Just a decision , a click of a thought, a longing to be back, can easily ease the tensions, can easily vanish the barricades and mental barriers one had so erected.

Such reconciliatory reunions  will come back  if one so desires. All  such self erected barricades will dissolve in  the split of a second.

The joy, the urge ,to be with each other, to interact, to meet , to party out together, will soon  be back!

Yes, I do agree, the re-uniting couples will have to always remember that they had broken their relationships, had drifted apart, and will have to bear in their mind that they have to be careful not to  talk on those topics,  and  play safe.

See, -Life is a big-big DRAMA,

We are all actors who need to perform. So , how well we act, we perform, all depends upon us.

All relationships are important. To see that your relationship is well and grounded,

well and maintained,  You have to nurture it.

TIME NOW TO TALK ABOUT ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS.

                              “MARRIAGE”

WHAT IS MARRIAGE?

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?

DO WE REALLY NEED IT?

WHEN SHOULD ONE MARRY?

IF AND WHEN ONE MARRIES..THEN WHAT?

IF AND WHEN ONE DOESN’T? THEN WHAT?

 When a man & a woman come together with a decision to live the rest of their living life together, they go through a religious ceremony, and in the presence of relatives/ nears & dears they sign a religious bond of being together, to grow together into the grey hair days , to procreate and to raise a family.

This & so much more can be said/ written about Marriage.

As u grow , you live life to the fullest. You see, you realise, you fathom, you understand, you do not understand

Every thing is happening in the mind, in the psyche of man!!!

You  are exposed to various facets of this so called relationship between spouses.

Yes , it’s a very special relationship.

Its time we delve into the paradoxical mould of a MARITAL RELATIONSHIP.

What all does it entail?

This word “ marriage “ had magic   , but where has all the magic gone?

Marriage -As thought for so many years was so important -that when the girl came of age, and the boy old enough, to handle responsibilities, parents would go about looking for an ideal match for their child. They would leave no stone unturned and would look round for whom they thought wd be the best partner for their child. The parents of the boy naturally would also look around for one who would not only be the best for their child, so also one who would adjust best within their family. The parents of the girl would also along side look for a boy who would / should care for their  daughter as also a family who would welcome her home with open arms. A lot can be said / written on this score.

I have written a few questions above, these are gaining ground these days.

So much has happened; So much is happening; The alarming rate at which couples are moving out of wedlock  vis-à-vis getting married is alarming!!!

A lot of the gen “Zee” also  very vocally debate on—

What is the need to MARRY”?

This is that Ladoo

“Jo Khaye who bhi pachtayee—

Jo na khayee – who to pach-taye-gaaaa hiii”

So…Now beginning a series of episods on Marriage itself…Ke sara-sa-raaa

What ever will be –will be

The future is yet to see

Ke sa-ra  sa—raaa

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